What others think about us? This is an universal question. Every human being have this question and everybody has different answers based upon their opinions and thought processes. But the simple answer to this question has two cases, They are:
Case1: No one thinks about you
Majority of time, No one cares about you because they have their own problem and tensions.
Lets Recap, Have you think about others when you are busy? The answer is “No”, because you have your own work to do and issues to deal with. Similarly, If you don’t think about others when you are busy, how could you think others will think about you. Think once about it, my words may hurt you but I am here to Enlighten you.
Case 2: People will think about you
Yes, You read correctly, People will think about you only When you attract them, when they feel you are important to them, when they feel interested about you. They also think about you looks weird to them. The simple logic is, If we concentrate on ourselves We can control what people will think about us, but not completely.
Let’s take an example: If you dressed well, looking hygienic and you are confident about your looks, Then guess what will others think about you? You are right, Majority of people think you look great and you are confident
Let’s take another example: If you dressed badly, looking unhygienic and you are not confident about your looks, Then others will have bad impression you.
But there are also Exceptions in this, There is no guarantee that If you dressed well, Everyone will think you are handsome. There may be chance of Somebody will feel jealous on you, somebody don’t like your dress at all, somebody will don’t like your body language etc… Probably majority will like you.
These are the few things, which we can control how others will think about you. There is also an another version to this.
There are few people called haters, They will always think Negatively, Judging your weaknesses and always pin pointing you. You cannot control their thoughts, feelings and opinions because they are seeing you with the lens of Negativity.
Now, The question arises how to deal with them? The Solution is simple but not Easy, Don’t pay your attention towards their words and opinions. No matter you do everything they always have something to say about you, which is not in your control.
Conclusion:
We cannot control others thoughts completely. So try to focus on people who likes you and consider their thoughts and feelings. There is no need to worry about the haters, Kill them with your success and Burry them with your smile.